Prepared by Gene Hollis
Her buoyant outlook suggests someone who simply expects things to
turn out well. In fact, she is quite surprised when her optimistic
expectations go unmet. Her outlook is fairly reasonable and rational and
she approaches problems with a combination of tangible facts, personal
feelings, and common sense, balancing all the factors when making a
decision. She is open to suggestions and may yield to the thinking of
others when under pressure. However, when a matter is really important
to her, Rahda can usually be counted on to stand firm.
Her self-confident manner indicates someone who believes they should
be treated well. Yet, while she enjoys receiving praise and recognition,
she doesn't depend on the good opinion of others. One interpretation of
integrity is 'being true to oneself,' a characteristic strongly present
in her personality. It is improbable that she would act against her
conscience, even the chief motivating factor behind her efforts,
personal pride is. She works hard to maintain high standards. She shows
little reluctance when it comes to asking for what she wants. Her strong
self-esteem tells her when it is appropriate to focus on getting her own
needs met. It's not within her nature to cave in to temptation without a
fight. She has sufficient willpower to stand firm in her views, even
when faced with strong opposition.
In new situations, her behavior is sometimes restrained to the point
of shyness. This kind of inhibition comes from a lack of self-belief.
She needs support from family and friends to help her combat her
feelings of insecurity. Strong feelings require a stronger degree of
control than average. She has learned to exercise restraint when it
comes to acting on her impulses, rather than letting them dominate her.
She gets very attached to her things, and once she acquires ownership is
reluctant to give anything up. If you borrow something from her, be sure
to return it in mint condition, or you will undoubtedly find yourself in
hot water. When it comes to her work, Rahda is especially exacting,
which points to some performance anxiety. Willing to spend some
significant time and energy making sure that there are no loose ends, it
is important to her to iron out all wrinkles before making a move.
Everyone has to deal with inner conflicts to some degree or another.
Recognizing that they exist, she doesn't spend an inordinate amount of
time on struggling with her own, but prefers to spend the bulk of her
energy on work or relationships.
Rahda is as practical as she is idealistic and prefers to stick to
what she knows whenever possible. When that is not effective enough she
is capable of calling on her imagination to help solve problems. Her
views and attitudes are basically traditional, but she is open-minded
enough to consider new possibilities if they have a solid foundation.
She uses a combination of logic and intuition to help her make
decisions. She listens to what her "sixth sense" is telling
her, but backs it up with data. The aesthetic and artistic side of her
nature could be an asset if she would allow herself the time and space
to express it.
When she feels pressured, she may find herself telling less than the
full truth. A sense of guilt might prick at her conscience, but it is
unlikely to stop her from justifying her actions. She tries to see the
lighter side when things are not going well, and uses her sense of humor
to help her bounce back. She is congenial but circumspect in
creating boundaries, and is careful about how she uses self-disclosure.
That is, she is not exactly blunt, she is more apt to use the direct
approach when she has something to say. You could say she makes an
effort to use some tact and diplomacy to get the point across.
Strong vitality and stamina provide the staying power to handle big
projects and do what needs to be done, holding steady until they are
complete. Even when things become dull and routine, or there are major
obstacles to overcome, she is able to keep pushing herself to the finish
line. Her stronger than average physical drives suggest she us usually
ready and willing to make lover whenever the opportunity is there. She
has the endurance and stamina to indulge in sex often, perhaps
experimenting with different types of lovemaking with a willing partner.
A demonstrative, warm-hearted person, she expresses her emotions and
responses genuinely and naturally. When you see a tear in her eye at a
sad movie, you can believe it is real. Her gregarious nature spurs her
to reach out and make the first move on making a new acquaintance. She
likes to make people feel good and does her best to make them
comfortable, whether in her own territory or elsewhere. There are times
when she does things for others, not only because they need it, but also
because being acknowledged for her contributions really gives her a warm
glow. Although she is not particularly territorial about money and
material possessions, neither is she so easygoing that she will give her
last dime to anyone with a sad story. There must be a good reason for
her to give. Even when her heart may be saying one thing, her head tells
her the degree of sensitivity that is called for. Therefore, she
recognizes when it is appropriate to listen to the critiques of others
and when it is better to turn a deaf ear.
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